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I Dyed My Hair … and No One Noticed

10/17/13 | Real Life

That is right, I dyed my hair and no one noticed.  For the first time in my life I grabbed a box of hair dye off the shelf at the drug store, came home, and followed the instructions. Thirty minutes later, I was done.  I was shooting for Kate Middleton brunette but I think it ended up a bit darker than that. Here are my before and after pictures:

Immediately I thought the change was drastic.  Home alone, I talked myself down and said it would be lighter when it was dry.  That was incorrect, it was super dark.  One week ago I died my hair and thought the whole word would notice, I was wrong.  I guess big changes do not make a big difference – my friends both Friday and Saturday evening did not notice.  I even brought it up to two of them and they said they did not see a change . Then at work this week even some of my coworkers, who see me everyday, did not notice a difference. Here I was, thinking this was I had made a drastic change in my appearance and no one noticed.  But then again, you look at yourself much more than others do. Then I began thinking, my hair has changed a ton over the last nine years (I can go back further, but those pictures, ages 9-14, will not ever see the light of computer-screen blog land).  My hair has gone from dark blonde to dirty blonde, to light brown and now all the way now to black-drown.  Take a look at all of the shade that I have had over the past nine years transitioning to the darkest color I have ever sported:

I must admit, reverse Facebook stalking myself to find all of these pictures was a very interesting adventure.  I learned from the process I wore a ton of things in high school I should not have and in college my friends really could have used some tagging discretion (I untagged at least a dozen photos in this process).   Overall, my hair has really changed and in the progression, friends who have known me five or ten years and only see me once every few weeks may have not noticed a difference.
The bottom line: my hair is different and I love it!

 

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Comments

  1. Dalene says

    December 25, 2014 at 1:00 pm

    You’re so interesting! I don’t believe I’ve read
    through something like this before. So wonderful to discover somebody with unique
    thoughts on this subject matter. Seriously..
    many thanks for starting this up. This website is something that is needed on the internet, someone with
    a bit of originality!

  2. Michael says

    October 21, 2013 at 12:55 pm

    I like the new color!! And you’re right, reverse stalking is and adventure.

  3. Michael says

    October 21, 2013 at 12:55 pm

    I like the new color!! And you’re right, reverse stalking is and adventure.

  4. Lindsey Augustine says

    October 21, 2013 at 12:27 am

    The fact that you love it is the only thing that matters. I parted my hair in the middle the other day for the first time in 7 year and expected my husband to notice and he didn’t. My conclusion is that the only person who cares how we change our hair is ourselves [unless you cut 6+ inches off]. I think it looks great though ;]

  5. Lindsey Augustine says

    October 21, 2013 at 12:27 am

    The fact that you love it is the only thing that matters. I parted my hair in the middle the other day for the first time in 7 year and expected my husband to notice and he didn’t. My conclusion is that the only person who cares how we change our hair is ourselves [unless you cut 6+ inches off]. I think it looks great though ;]

  6. Christine Rosko says

    October 19, 2013 at 5:00 pm

    I notice! I notice! It looks so good 🙂

  7. Christine Rosko says

    October 19, 2013 at 5:00 pm

    I notice! I notice! It looks so good 🙂

  8. Cari says

    October 19, 2013 at 7:47 am

    I can definitely tell!!! it looks fabulous!!!

    I need to get mine done asap!

  9. Cari says

    October 19, 2013 at 7:47 am

    I can definitely tell!!! it looks fabulous!!!

    I need to get mine done asap!

  10. Susan Westrell says

    October 18, 2013 at 2:07 pm

    People that see you frequently only notice changes if they’re super drastic (like when I dyed my hair black after having had it red for two years…) It’s always funny to see whether or not people notice changes that you think are big. Your new color looks great.

    xo
    Sue

  11. Susan Westrell says

    October 18, 2013 at 2:07 pm

    People that see you frequently only notice changes if they’re super drastic (like when I dyed my hair black after having had it red for two years…) It’s always funny to see whether or not people notice changes that you think are big. Your new color looks great.

    xo
    Sue

  12. Brooke Reagan says

    October 18, 2013 at 12:06 am

    New color looks great on you! I’ve been toying with changing mine as well but I’m such a scaredy cat!

    Brooke du jour
    http://www.brookedujour.com

  13. Brooke Reagan says

    October 18, 2013 at 12:06 am

    New color looks great on you! I’ve been toying with changing mine as well but I’m such a scaredy cat!

    Brooke du jour
    http://www.brookedujour.com

  14. Becky Dougherty says

    October 17, 2013 at 7:53 pm

    I just had my hair dyed for the first time ever! I got an ombré thing done because I was highly terrified to try to change it all at once! First of all, I didn’t want to freak out my students, but I also was afraid I wouldn’t like it. Anyway, the point is I changed my hair color for the first time ever, and no one noticed. I had ONE student and one other teacher noticed!

  15. Becky Dougherty says

    October 17, 2013 at 7:53 pm

    I just had my hair dyed for the first time ever! I got an ombré thing done because I was highly terrified to try to change it all at once! First of all, I didn’t want to freak out my students, but I also was afraid I wouldn’t like it. Anyway, the point is I changed my hair color for the first time ever, and no one noticed. I had ONE student and one other teacher noticed!

  16. sonia de macedo says

    October 17, 2013 at 5:24 pm

    Oh no! That’s the worst thing ever, I had an ex who didn’t notice the change from blonde to black brunette and that was pretty shitty so I feel your pain. On a positive note I think the change looks fabulous on you!

    SDMxx
    http://www.daringcoco.com

  17. Karly Kim says

    October 17, 2013 at 3:32 pm

    I love your hair! I’m going to tell you that it looks different next time I see you.

  18. Karly Kim says

    October 17, 2013 at 3:32 pm

    I love your hair! I’m going to tell you that it looks different next time I see you.

  19. BlushandBarbells says

    October 17, 2013 at 3:09 pm

    I colored half my hair pink and no one noticed. I was kind of bummed!

  20. BlushandBarbells says

    October 17, 2013 at 3:09 pm

    I colored half my hair pink and no one noticed. I was kind of bummed!

  21. Kelli@She Crab Soup says

    October 17, 2013 at 2:52 pm

    I can see the difference in the side by side pictures above, the dark looks good.

  22. Kelli@Just Beachy says

    October 17, 2013 at 2:52 pm

    I can see the difference in the side by side pictures above, the dark looks good.

  23. Liz says

    October 17, 2013 at 2:39 pm

    don’t worry, when i went blonde half the people in my life didn’t notice, it happens!

    http://oyouclassy.com
    http://oyouclassy.com

  24. Liz says

    October 17, 2013 at 2:39 pm

    don’t worry, when i went blonde half the people in my life didn’t notice, it happens!

    http://oyouclassy.com
    http://oyouclassy.com

  25. Always Maylee says

    October 17, 2013 at 1:38 pm

    From the photos you can see the difference! Maybe the lighting was off when you saw your friends? If it makes you feel better, I get haircuts all the time and no one notices them.:)

    xo, Yi-chia
    Always Maylee

  26. Always Maylee says

    October 17, 2013 at 1:38 pm

    From the photos you can see the difference! Maybe the lighting was off when you saw your friends? If it makes you feel better, I get haircuts all the time and no one notices them.:)

    xo, Yi-chia
    Always Maylee

  27. Miss Angie says

    October 17, 2013 at 1:10 pm

    It looks great!

  28. Miss Angie says

    October 17, 2013 at 1:10 pm

    It looks great!

  29. Kelsey says

    October 17, 2013 at 12:58 pm

    That happens to me all the time. I do something that I think is drastic and nobody notices and then I look back later and realized trimming an inch of my hair off is not drastic haha. Love the dark on you! Fun change for fall 🙂

  30. Kelsey says

    October 17, 2013 at 12:58 pm

    That happens to me all the time. I do something that I think is drastic and nobody notices and then I look back later and realized trimming an inch of my hair off is not drastic haha. Love the dark on you! Fun change for fall 🙂

  31. Sharon says

    October 17, 2013 at 10:40 am

    You can definitely tell the difference from the photos! So funny that none of your friends even realized!

    -Sharon
    The Tiny Heart

  32. Sharon says

    October 17, 2013 at 10:40 am

    You can definitely tell the difference from the photos! So funny that none of your friends even realized!

    -Sharon
    The Tiny Heart

  33. Alyssa says

    October 17, 2013 at 10:34 am

    Both light and dark shades look amazing on you! Side by side, I can definitely tell the difference, and I love the new darker shade on you!

  34. Alyssa says

    October 17, 2013 at 10:33 am

    Both light and dark shades look amazing on you! Side by side, I can definitely tell the difference, and I love the new darker shade on you!

  35. Hannah T. says

    October 17, 2013 at 9:59 am

    Love your hair! 🙂

    x Hannah

    http://theadventurouslifestylelab.blogspot.be/

  36. Hannah T. says

    October 17, 2013 at 9:59 am

    Love your hair! 🙂

    x Hannah

    http://theadventurouslifestylelab.blogspot.be/

  37. Sam @ Frills & Thrills says

    October 17, 2013 at 9:00 am

    Hi Kelly, you are so lucky that every shade, light or dark suits you so beautifully!

  38. Sam @ Frills & Thrills says

    October 17, 2013 at 9:00 am

    Hi Kelly, you are so lucky that every shade, light or dark suits you so beautifully!

  39. Georgina says

    October 17, 2013 at 8:16 am

    That is crazy because there is SUCH an obvious difference!! We all were that way in high school and college, now we are just thankful we have much better judgement (and taste!) xo

  40. Georgina says

    October 17, 2013 at 8:16 am

    That is crazy because there is SUCH an obvious difference!! We all were that way in high school and college, now we are just thankful we have much better judgement (and taste!) xo

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